Become A Foster Family

Who can apply to become a foster carer?

Adults aged 21 or over can apply to become foster carers, whether single, married, partnered, renting or owning their home, provided they can offer a safe, stable home and meet the required fostering checks. You will usually need a spare bedroom and must complete an assessment covering your health, circumstances, household and ability to care for children and young people.

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Most adults can apply to become foster carers if they can provide consistent care, work openly with professionals and meet the required fostering standards. Eligibility is not decided by one factor alone. The assessment considers your health, household, relationships, practical circumstances, experience and ability to meet the needs of children and young people.

Your personal circumstances

  • You can apply whether you are single, married or in a partnership. If you live with a partner, both of you will normally be involved in the assessment because fostering affects the whole household.
  • There is generally no upper age limit. The important consideration is whether you have the health, energy and capacity to care safely for a child throughout a placement.
  • Your sexuality, gender, ethnicity, religion and cultural background do not automatically prevent you from fostering. What matters is your ability to respect and support a child’s identity, background and personal needs.
  • You do not usually need to have birth children or previous parenting experience. Skills gained through childcare, education, youth work, social care, teaching, healthcare or supporting relatives may be relevant, but applicants are assessed as individuals.
  • Being in employment does not automatically prevent you from applying. Your working arrangements will be discussed to establish how you would manage school routines, appointments, contact arrangements and the demands of a placement.

Your household and home

Everyone who lives in your household will be considered because fostering can affect family life. This includes conversations about how household members feel about fostering, the support available to you and how you would manage changes to routines and privacy. The views and needs of any children in the household are particularly important.

Pets are not an automatic barrier, but they will be assessed for safety and suitability. You may need to follow specific arrangements to protect a child, particularly where an animal is large, unpredictable or has access to the areas used by a foster child.

Your home will be assessed for safety, privacy and suitability for the type of fostering you are considering. The assessing team will discuss household safety, sleeping arrangements, transport and whether the home can provide an appropriate environment for a child. Housing permission may also need to be checked where relevant.

Health, wellbeing and lifestyle

You do not need to be in perfect health to foster. A medical assessment is used to consider whether your physical and emotional health would allow you to care reliably for a child and manage the demands of fostering. Existing health conditions are considered individually, with attention to their likely effect on daily care and long-term availability.

Agencies may also discuss smoking, alcohol, prescribed medication and other lifestyle factors where they could affect a child’s safety or wellbeing. These matters do not always mean that you cannot apply, but they may lead to specific safety requirements or affect which placements could be considered.

Checks and suitability

Applicants must complete a range of checks before approval. These commonly include criminal record checks, identity checks, health information, personal references and enquiries involving other adults in the household. Previous convictions, cautions or social care involvement are considered in context. Some offences may prevent approval, while other information may require further explanation rather than ending the application automatically.

Honesty is essential. Failing to disclose relevant information can create difficulties later, whereas discussing your circumstances at the beginning allows the assessing team to give accurate advice about your options.

Financial circumstances may also be discussed. You need to be able to manage your household finances without relying on fostering payments before a placement is made. Existing debts do not automatically rule you out, but the assessment may consider whether your financial situation could affect a child’s stability or your ability to foster.

What happens after you enquire?

  • You discuss your circumstances, reasons for applying and the type of fostering you are considering with a fostering professional.
  • You receive information about the role, expectations, training, checks, assessment and financial arrangements.
  • If fostering appears suitable, you complete the formal application and consent to the required checks.
  • You take part in preparation training and assessment meetings, where your experience, household, health, support network and ability to care for children are explored in detail.
  • A recommendation is made about your suitability and the type of placements that may be appropriate.

Applying does not commit you to accepting every placement, and an initial enquiry is an opportunity to ask questions before deciding whether to proceed. Become A Foster Family can explain how the requirements apply to your circumstances and what information you will need to provide. If something in your situation has changed, such as your health, relationship, household or housing, mention it early so the assessment can be planned accurately.

Prospective foster carer speaking with a social worker during an assessment meeting

Applicants do not need to know everything about fostering before they apply. A key consideration is whether you are willing to learn, reflect on your approach and accept guidance. Foster carers work with social workers, education staff, health professionals and a child’s family, so being able to listen, share information appropriately and adapt your care is an important part of suitability.

During the assessment, you may be asked to think about how you would respond to difficult behaviour, maintain a child’s routines and manage situations that do not go as expected. You are not expected to have perfect answers at the outset. What matters is your willingness to discuss challenges honestly, consider different approaches and use training and professional advice to improve your care.

Find out if you can apply to become a foster carer

If you are ready to explore fostering in more detail, contact Become A Foster Family to discuss your circumstances and the next stage of the application process.

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