
How does staying put differ from supported lodgings?
Staying put allows a young person who has left foster care to remain living with their former foster carer, with an agreed plan for support as they move towards independence. Supported lodgings usually involve a young person living with a host who provides accommodation and guidance, but it is a separate arrangement with different eligibility rules, responsibilities and payment arrangements.
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Staying put and supported lodgings are different post-18 arrangements. Staying put is intended for a care leaver who remains with the foster carer they lived with before turning 18. Supported lodgings provide accommodation and a degree of practical support from a host, but the host is not usually the young person’s former foster carer and the arrangement is normally set up through a separate housing, leaving-care or supported-accommodation service.
Who is eligible
A staying put arrangement is generally considered for a young person who has been looked after and wants to continue living with their former foster carer after their foster placement ends. The local authority, young person and former foster carer should agree whether the arrangement is suitable and record it as part of the young person’s pathway planning.
Supported lodgings may be available to a wider group of young people, depending on the local scheme. This can include care leavers, young people who need help moving towards independent living, and in some areas young people who cannot live with their family or need a more supported alternative to a tenancy. Eligibility, referral routes and age limits are set by the organisation or local authority providing the scheme.
The main differences are:
- Previous relationship: staying put builds on an existing foster placement and relationship. Supported lodgings usually match a young person with a host after an assessment, whether or not they have previously lived with that person.
- Purpose: staying put offers continuity while a care leaver develops independence. Supported lodgings focus on providing a stable home base alongside practical help with skills such as budgeting, cooking, education, employment and managing appointments.
- Legal status: a foster placement ends when the young person reaches adulthood. Staying put is a post-fostering arrangement rather than an extension of foster care, so the former foster carer is not fostering the young person under the same approval and placement arrangements. Supported lodgings are also not foster placements; they operate under the rules and procedures of the relevant supported-lodgings provider.
- Level of support: staying put often involves a familiar household and support agreed around that particular young person. Supported lodgings can range from a relatively settled household with regular guidance to a more structured arrangement with planned support, depending on the scheme and assessed needs.
- Household expectations: in both arrangements, the young person is expected to take increasing responsibility for their daily life. However, a staying put agreement is shaped by the previous foster household, whereas supported lodgings will have the host’s house rules, boundaries and scheme requirements.
How support is planned
For staying put, the young person’s personal adviser and local authority should help establish what support is needed and how it will be reviewed. The written agreement may cover accommodation, privacy, household routines, education or work, health appointments, contact with professionals, contributions to household costs, and the steps towards greater independence. The former foster carer should also understand what support is available to them and who to contact if circumstances change.
Supported lodgings usually have their own assessment and matching process. The host may receive guidance from a support worker, and the young person may have scheduled meetings or a support plan. The arrangement should explain what the host is responsible for, what the young person is expected to do, how concerns are reported and how progress towards independent accommodation will be supported.
How money and costs differ
The financial arrangements are not the same. In staying put, the local authority normally agrees how the former foster carer will be supported financially and how ordinary household costs will be managed. The young person’s income, education or employment position and any agreed contribution should be considered clearly rather than assumed.
In supported lodgings, the host may receive a payment, while the young person may be expected to meet an agreed rent, service charge or contribution where the scheme provides for this. The source of funding and the amount payable vary between services. A young person should ask for a written explanation of accommodation costs, benefits, earnings and any effect on other financial support before agreeing to the arrangement.
Which option is appropriate?
Staying put may be the better fit where the young person is settled with their former foster carer, wants to preserve that home and relationship, and can work towards independence within that household. Supported lodgings may be considered where a young person needs accommodation with a new host, a more structured support plan, or an arrangement designed specifically around moving into independent living.
The options should not be treated as interchangeable or chosen solely because one appears more suitable financially. The young person’s wishes, safety, housing needs, relationships, education or work, health, ability to manage daily tasks and longer-term plan should all be considered. The personal adviser, social worker or relevant supported-accommodation service can explain which routes are available locally and what an application or referral involves.
Before either arrangement begins, ask for the agreement in writing. It should identify who provides support, how decisions are made, what happens if the young person or host has concerns, how costs are handled, and how the arrangement can end or change. Clear documentation helps everyone understand that staying put is a planned transition from foster care, while supported lodgings is a separate form of supported accommodation.

One important difference is how the household relationship changes after the foster placement ends. In staying put, the former foster carer and young person already know one another, but their roles need to be renegotiated as the young person becomes an adult. The arrangement should support growing independence rather than simply continuing the previous foster placement.
Practical conversations should cover privacy, visitors, use of shared spaces, household routines, decision-making and how disagreements will be handled. The young person should be able to take more control over everyday choices, while the former foster carer should be clear about reasonable boundaries within their home. These discussions help distinguish a planned staying put arrangement from an informal agreement to remain living at home.
Ask our team about staying put and supported lodgings
If you are unsure whether staying put or supported lodgings is the right route, speak to our team for guidance on the options and next steps for your circumstances.
